16 and 13 year old dating
While I understand your fear for her in her relationship with this young man, I'm telling you not to get stuck there.
So, let's piece the rift back together: Talk to her.
This mother is seeking advice about her soon to be 17-year-old daughter's relationship with a 21-year-old man.
Her daughter was on the right track in school, getting straight A's and had no behavioral problems.
Parents must also deal with their daughter's often stubborn intention to date this young man.
These are all valid questions and make the situation difficult to handle.
Many parents of teenage girls face a tough problem.
Should you allow your daughter to date an older boy?
You allowed her to create a relationship with this boy and now you need to respect that relationship.
If you do not, she is going to learn that you don't respect her feelings - they don't matter to you, she has to fight you to get what she wants and that love is hurtful. I don't think she is just saying she hates you or that she thinks you hate her, she is most likely feeling a little bit of it.